Abstrkt Femme

The Guide for the Gifted and Fearless

Self-Care Includes Self-Discipline. My Rules For Love and Success


◦ Real ones prove their worth without trying or being asked to.

◦ Pay for things separately. If a purchase must be shared, pay them back/get paid back! Money can complicate any relationship.

◦ No one owes me anything.

◦ I do not owe anyone anything.

◦ Real ones channel the energy back.

◦ Don’t hold onto ideas of people or relationships, trust that what is being shown to you is insight, and it is real.

Productivity/Successful Mindset

◦ Build trust by keeping my word to myself.

◦ Stick to routines even through the discomfort.

◦ Minimize naps and idle time. Free time should be earned.

◦ Prioritize myself first.

◦ Don’t sell myself out. Everything I need is within. Everything I want is aligned with my true self.

◦ Make more $$$ than I spend.

◦ Meditate. Exercise. Avoid the mirror. Eat. Drink water. Make money. Get it done.

◦ Check things off my list instead of procrastinating.

Love Life

◦ I am unapologetic about my safe sexual and romantic preferences.

◦ Sex is not always intimacy.

◦ Trust my gut feelings. They haven’t lied yet.

◦ Communication is NECESSARY. Even when difficult. If they’re meant to stay they will. If not, there will always be a reason to walk through the door.

◦ Prioritize myself first!!!

◦ If I like them and we’re hanging out anywhere but my house, bring an overnight bag. Period. No more sleeping in makeup and “walk of shames”.

◦ Trust what people tell and show you! They know themselves and what they can handle more than you do.

◦ Don’t force a result on anyone.

◦ You’re worth it. BEST LIFE BABY.

Learning new ways to make my life work for me,



Katherine Elizabeth Jackson, aka Abstrkt, is a Long Beach to Oakland to Atlanta-based writer, creator and manager of the lifestyle and adventure website, Abstrkt Femme. When she is not creating content for her website she is performing as a Afro-cultural dancer, working in the holistic health field as a Reiki Master practitioner, or documenting her life experiences through photography and writing. She uses her experiences as a multifaceted artist and healer to view the lessons of life from many angles, which she then shares on Abstrkt Femme and in her book, Alive In Everything.

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